People who are “looking for the right partner” are less likely to find him or her.
The looking-for implies lack and lack is not attractive.
Stop looking, get on with your life. There are a number of things you need to go through before the “soulmate” shows up. If it’s really your soulmate they’ll show up on their own, no “looking for” necessary.
You’d be amazed at how many things magically show up when you stop looking for it (= pretending it’s not already there).
